A UKRAINIAN couple living in Limerick are living in constant fear their families who are in their war-torn homeland will be slaughtered by Russian invaders.
Andrej and Alisa Mitigan, and their two year old daughter, Mia, settled in Limerick a year and a half ago when Mr Mitigan, a civil engineer, began working for a local construction company.
Mr Mitigan (35) said he is prepared to go back to Ukraine to help defend it and protect his parents and brother who have taken up arms and are sleeping in basements to try to avoid Russian missile strikes.
“I’m from Kyiv, my family are there, my father mother, brother, and all of them are pushed to take the weapons to protect their lives. We don’t want a war. Ukrainians love peace and democracy but the Russians are trying to destroy our country; everyday they are attacking us, killing us,” said Mr Mitigan.
“I have parents, a brother, friends, my grandma and grandpa. They sleep in basements, and they are afraid because missiles have attacked our city.”
Becoming emotional, Mr Mitigan said: “My daughter is two years old, and yesterday she said to me, ‘Father, let’s draw a rocket’, and I cried.”
His family in Ukraine have already seen the worst of the war, “they see how people die, and they hear rockets”.
“I want to protect them, and if the situation worsens, I’m going to go back to Ukraine to protect them. I’m a civil engineer, I’m not a soldier, but I will go back and fight.”
“I support our President because Russia’s rockets are not only killing our soldiers, they are hitting our houses, and even our kindergartens have been attacked; they are killing civilians not only soldiers.”
He says economic sanctions imposed on Russia are not enough, but he believes Ukraine can defend itself without the need for Allied troops in the country – but only as long as Western powers continue to supply Ukraine with military supports.
His message to those who can support Ukraine’s defence against Russia is a simple one: “Help us with weapons, because we are the last world between Russia and Europe, and if you look at the history of war, Hitler started with one country and then another, so if you don’t want to be the next one, help us do what we are doing right now.”
He is convinced Russian President Vladimir Putin is too much of a coward to start a nuclear war.
“Putin lives in a bunker, and he looks like a very strong guy but he is not. He is afraid and he is scared for his own life.”
Alisa Mitigan, whose parents live close to Kyiv, says they are fully supportive the orders of Ukraine President Volodymyr Zelenskyy that all men from 18 to 60 must stay and defend their country.
“Of course I am worried for them, I don’t know if I will see them in the future, I don’t know if I will see them alive again. They don’t know what will happen,” she explained.
Although safe in Limerick, she grieves the terror that has struck at the heart of her family.
“I cry everyday. I ring them and ask them are they okay. All our thoughts are about Ukraine now.
“Our fathers are told they must stay in the Ukraine, and our mothers have told us they we will support their husbands. A lot of our friends with small kids are trying to find a safe place for them, they are leaving Ukraine because the kids don’t need to see this or hear this. It’s very bad for their future and their development,” said Ms Mitigan.
“A lot of our friends are still in Kyiv and said they will stay and fight, and we don’t know what to do.”
Thankfully for now, Ukraine’s telecommunications infrastructure is intact, and allowing them to stay in touch with their loved ones in Ukraine.
“My parents told me they are happy we are not there because our future isn’t safe there. Of course they are afraid, because they don’t know what the future will be.”
“We have other relatives in Russia and they say they want to help us and save us. They propose we go to Russia because it is safe there, but that’s impossible.”
